Thursday, December 29, 2011

Welcome Eli Holmes Fullen!!!

Well, here it is... and here he is! Our beautiful baby boy, Eli Holmes Fullen, joined the world on Tuesday, December 20, 2011 at 6:24 in the morning. We have never been happier, felt so much love, and been so tired in our lives!

Eli's birth story:
On Monday, 12/19/11, the first official day of winter break from school (impeccable timing on the little man's part) I found myself being super productive. I vacuumed, changed sheets on the guest bed, did laundry, ran errands, and wrapped all of my gifts. While wrapping, around 4:30 in the afternoon, I started to feel really uncomfortable. I knew I was feeling contractions, but nothing seemed measurable so I figured they were just Braxton Hixs.
However, by 5:30, I was super uncomfortable so I called Scott at work to let him know that something was not right. By the time he got home at 7:30, I was contracting like crazy, but still, they didn't seem to have a steady measure (they were between 5 and 8 minutes apart). We made dinner, relaxed, continued to count just to be sure and convinced ourselves that nothing would happen that night.
We got into bed around 10:00 and as I rolled over to go to sleep... bam... my water broke! We called the doctor on call and were excited to find that it was Dr. Rinala, one of our favorites. She sent us ahead to the hospital. On the way to the hospital my contractions started coming every 3 minutes and were super strong.
Once in triage, I was contracting, getting sick, and decided fairly quickly that I was getting the epidural. Scott was right there with me, rubbing my back, talking me through each contraction, staying incredibly calm, and loving me. I don't know how I would have gotten through that hour without him.
Finally, they took me up to a lovely room in the labor and delivery wing where, after the longest hour of my life in triage, I got an epidural. However, at that point I had gone from 2cm dilated to 8 cm dilated in only 20 minutes and my contractions were coming too fast. This caused Eli's heart-rate to drop dramatically. He should have been around 130 and he was at 70. They thought for a minute that I might need a c-section if they couldn't get it under control. They gave me meds to slow my contractions and soon his heart-rate was normal.
Next came the waiting game... and we waited. Scott had made a fabulous 14 hour mix on his iPod of our favorite chill music. /the lights were dim and he was by my side. The epidural caused me to have the shakes so he rubbed me and talked to me. Our moms and my dad were there too, anxiously awaiting Eli.
At around 4:15, the nurse emptied the room of everyone but Scott and I. She sat me up to help with my last cm of dilation and together Scott and I took a 45 minute nap... the last for quite a while. When the nurse and Dr. Rinala came back, it was go time. Scott and I had agreed that he would stay up by my head and coach me through it all. However, when the time came, we were surprised to learn that the birthing team was our nurse, Danielle, Dr. Rinala, and Scott. Dr. Rinala told him to grab my right leg. He was right in the thick of things.
An hour and a half went by, Scott and Danielle holding my legs, music continuing to play, and all three of them coaching me. Once again, I don't know what I would have done without Scott there. Felling him holding me and hearing him talk to me and tell me I could do it was wonderful. Then, after that hour and a half of exhausting pushing, I heard the most wonderful sound I could ever imagine... the crying of our miracle Eli.
Of course, after holding him, I told Scott to leave me and go check on the baby... how many fingers, how many toes, does he look alright? Scott told me he was perfect (while secretly thinking, Oh my God, he has a cone head!). After getting stitched up, I got to hold my baby in my arms, feel him skin to skin, and the three of us, Scott, Eli, and myself, officially started our new life together.
Fast forward... two days in the hospital, fairly uncomfortable, crowded, exhausted and ready to go home... our wish came true and we came home on Thursday afternoon. We were greeted by decorations from Caitlin and of course, Jack. Now our family was complete.
Jack was totally confused and a little freaked out at first. He wasn't sure what Eli was and why he was in our house. However, over the next few days, he really got used to him and now he LOVES him. He sits with us when we feed, checks on Eli when he cries, and of course finds dirty clothes and burp cloths delicious to lick.
While Scott and I are definitely tired, overwhelmed, and always learning, we have been so blessed to be surrounded by helpful and loving family and friends. Everyone has been so great and we are so appreciative. I cannot wait for this new life of the Fullen Family to continue to unfold and to see what it brings. I'll be home from work until April so I have lots of time to learn and figure things out! Stay posted for entries and I'll do my best to keep on top of things.
Enjoy some pics of Eli's week 1 journey!


I'm a week old! 
Enjoying a popsicle. 

Finally, I get to hold my baby!!!
Grandparents gather around. 

Brand new baby Eli! 

Caitlin came to visit Eli at the hospital.
Family photo... boy we look tired!!!
Just 1 day old.
Skin to skin time with mommy and baby!
Time to go home! Look at my cute bear outfit!!!
Finally back home... cuddling with mommy and big brother Jack.
My First Christmas. I spent most of it sleeping!
Family photo on Christmas.
Look at me... celebrating Christmas night. I'm wide awake looking for Santa. 

Saturday, December 17, 2011

We've made it!!!!

Well, this past week marked week 37... FULL TERM!!! I can't believe it! According to all the books, baby can come at any time and be perfectly healthy. Although, they always point out that he will continue to put on necessary baby fat the next few weeks so it's good if he sticks around a little longer in there.
This week was also my last week at work. It was the last week for the kids before break and it came at a very good time for how I am starting to feel. For those of you who have ever spent time in a classroom, you know what the week before a break is like... that on top of being 9 1/2 months pregnant is EXHAUSTING! The kids were great, though. Monday started off like any normal day, me expecting a mystery reader at 10:00 when instead up came about 6 of the moms from my room to throw a baby shower. My kids kept this a secret since Thanksgiving! Not a single kid let it slip that that they were planning a shower for me and for the past two weeks they had been bringing in children's books and giving them to one of my 3rd levels for his mom to organize. I HAD NO IDEA!!! We played games, ate food, and they gave me a bin of absolutely wonderful books in which they had each written a letter. It was amazing.
The rest of the week was busy busy busy. I found myself feeling pretty tired by about noon, but the days must go on. I can only hope that my kids couldn't read in to my exhaustion and had a good final week. Friday was a tough day with tears... both my kids and I. We discussed (as we have all year long) that when they come back from break, I won't be there. I think it is now much more real for them since the time has actually come. I'm having a hard time, as the control freak that I am, handing over the responsibility of my classroom, plus handing over my babies, to the sub. I know she'll be great, but it is definitely harder than I ever imagined. I've been told, and I know it's true, that as soon as my little man arrives, I'll be so excited/consumed/in love that I'll feel much better about leaving my students. As kids go... my 25 little ones are AMAZING!
We are going to the doctor every week now. At our appointment on Wednesday, everything looked good. My sugar levels are good, my weight gain is right on, I'm really not putting anything significant on at this point, which is pretty normal. His heartbeat sounds strong. It never gets old hearing his heartbeat... I love it more and more each time. I've started dilating... about 2 cm. This means very little however, as I could sit there for days or weeks. We'll get an update this Wednesday. I think at this point... Turtle could make his grand entrance at any time.

37 weeks! Enjoying the Cincinnati Zoo Festival of Lights... my basketball belly!